vanilla
Definition
1. Conventionally sexual; plain, ordinary and bland as opposed to deviant or kinky. Normal, conforming, conventional, straight, non-kinky sex, like the plainest flavor, vanilla ice cream.SYNONYMS: bambi; non-kinky; straight.
2. In gay terminology, a synonym for straight, heterosexual.
3. In fetishistim and BDSM, descriptive of relatively conventional forms of sexual activity, the lighter, more innocent side of sexuality in contrast to sadomasochistic and fetichist sex play.
4. A white person.
QUOTE: Coco (Irene Cara) and Hilary Van Doren (Antonia Franceschi) talking about Leroy (Gene Anthony Ray) in Fame (1980):
-- Coco: ' Look, I'm not 'my dear'. You can fuck 'my dear'.'
-- Hilary: ' Well, thank you. That might be fun.'
-- Coco: ' That might be impossible. He's not into vanilla.'
-- Hilary: ' It might be a nice change from black cherry.'
-- Coco: ' The darker the berry the sweeter the juice, honey.'
-- Hilary: ' Yes, but who wants diabetes.'